I'm a dating clarity coach
NLP Master Practitioner,
award-winning author,
speaker, writer,
recovering workaholic,
still a chocoholic,
lifelong learner,
and travel fanatic who has accomplished the feat of going to all 7 continents within 12 months.
Based in sunny California
kat nieh
well, Hello. I'm
Here's my mission
I want to
help people
more
consciously
and more
intentionally.
I want to help people
more consciously
+ more intentionally.
love
Instead of basing who + what you want on what society, culture, or Hollywood portrays, cocreate a relationship + life that truly works for you and your partner—however it looks like. My intention is to explore, learn, and share other ways of approaching relationships + life with more intentionality, consciousness, and compassion.
You didn’t come across my website or content by accident. It’s exciting to know that there are more people like you seeking deeper content like this. Welcome and I’m grateful to be a part of your journey.
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the tl;dr
I have transformed myself from a hopeless to hopeful romantic, anxious to secure attachment style, and an often-overlooked nice girl to the confident, embodied feminine woman I am today. I know my worth and all the amazing things I bring to a solid, loving, and deeply-connected relationship.
I have transformed myself from
a hopeless to hopeful romantic, anxious to secure attachment style, and an often-overlooked
nice girl to the confident, embodied feminine woman
I am today. I know my worth and all the amazing things
I bring to a solid, loving, and deeply-connected relationship.
You’re not alone.
I’ve been there.
You’re not alone. I’ve been there.
I used to be "married" to my job
I was a burnt out tech industry workaholic who felt lost and didn’t know who I was anymore. I deeply desired a serious, long term relationship, but it felt completely out of reach while my biological clock kept ticking away towards and now “past the cut off of where most eligible men would want to date.” (I know… I look younger than I actually am.)
I tried a lot of
different things
I tried a lot of different things
I’ve read tons of books, scoured the internet and social media, took numerous courses, and hired plenty of coaches just to wrap my head around these things called “dating” and “relationships”
I paid for premium subscriptions and hired matchmakers to help with the process, and I’ve felt the despair and frustrations when those didn’t pan out. I have also been through tumultuous and unfulfilling relationships that I've lost myself in or dragged on longer than they should’ve.
I went through quite a deep and expansive journey spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and financially to find love (and myself). It's most likely because I was meant to teach and guide others through this, so you could benefit from my experiences and shorten your own journey.
I paid for premium subscriptions and hired matchmakers to help with the process, and I’ve felt
the despair and frustrations when those didn’t pan out. I have also been through tumultuous and unfulfilling relationships that
I've lost myself in or dragged
on longer than they should’ve.
I went through quite a deep and expansive journey spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and financially to find love (and myself). It's most likely because
I was meant to teach and guide others through this, so you could benefit from my experiences and shorten your own journey.
I've done a lot of extensive trainings
- Certified NLP master practitioner
- Master Practitioner of Mental Emotional Release® (MER)
- Certified Integrative NLP Coach through Empowerment, Inc.
- Certified Dreambuilder Coach and Life Mastery Consultant under Mary Morrissey and the Brave Thinking Institute
- Practitioner of Huna―Ancient Hawaiian modality of spirituality and healing arts with a 28th generation lineage through the Bray family, Kumu Matt James, and Master Kumu Hula Etua Lopes
- Honing my intuition with the Psychic Development Coaching Program through Dr. Patrick Scott of Integral Life Systems
- Embodying my femininity and embracing my sexuality through Mama Gena from The School of Womanly Arts and Lauren Joyce, the Magnetic Woman.
I learned intuitive and energetic healing modalities to amplify the results for myself and my clients.
I deepened my coaching skills through certifications from two different companies who have been in the personal growth business for more than 40 years.
...and many, many more.
- Certified NLP master practitioner
- Master Practitioner of Mental Emotional Release® (MER)
- Certified Integrative NLP Coach through Dr. Matt James and the Empowerment, Inc.
- Certified Dreambuilder Coach and Life Mastery Consultant under Mary Morrissey and the Brave Thinking Institute
- Practitioner of Huna―Ancient Hawaiian modality of spirituality + healing arts with a 28th generation lineage through the Bray family, Kumu Matt James, and Master Kumu Hula Etua Lopes
- Honing my intuition with the Psychic Development Coaching Program through Dr. Patrick Scott of Integral Life Systems
One of my outrageous desires is to create my own non-profit, but until then...
Through working with me, you are not only impacting your life and those around you. 10% of the investment in your own growth is donated to a non-profit or charity that helps victims of abusive or toxic relationships or provides preventative relationship abuse education for deeper social change. Past donations have been given to One Love and The California Partnership to End Domestic Violence.
One of my outrageous desires is to create my own non-profit, but until then...
Through working with me, you are not only impacting your life and those around you. 10% of the investment
in your own growth is donated to a non-profit or charity that helps victims of abusive or toxic relationships or provides preventative relationship abuse education for deeper social change.
Past donations have been given to
One Love and The California
Partnership to End Domestic Violence.
How else am I furthering change?
COUNTRIES TRAVELED TO DATE
29 + Antarctica
I can Drool over...
A large, soft, moist, and chunky chocolate chip cookie from Verve 🍪
CAN I PLEASE GET A CUP OF...
Matcha latte with almond milk
One day I want to...
Go volcano boarding in Nicaragua
…on another day
Go out into space
Secret talent
Tetris-ing things really well to pack a lot of stuff in a small suitcase
One of my favorite quotes:
– Jennifer Lee, American film director and screenwriter
"Be fearless in the pursuit of what sets your soul on fire."
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client testimonial
“Kat did an excellent job. And is very talented at coaching.
She is just such a nice person. I felt very comfortable revealing myself to her. And you can feel that she really cares about you and wants to help you. She is knowledgeable and experienced. And be able to resonate with you with her personal stories. She has a lot of empathy.”
“Kat did an excellent job. And is very talented at coaching. She is just
such a nice person. I felt very comfortable revealing myself to her. And you can feel that she really cares about you and wants to help you. She is knowledgeable
and experienced. And be able to resonate with you with her personal stories.
She has a lot of empathy.”